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kristin
12-08-2005, 02:00 PM
Something old signifies that the couple's friends will stay with them. In one version of the tradition the 'something old' was an old garter which was given to the bride by a happily married woman so that the new bride would also enjoy a happy marriage.

Something new looks to the future for health, happiness and success.

Someting borrowed is an opportunity for the bride's family to give her something as a token of their love (it must be returned to ensure good luck).

Something blue is thought to be lucky because blue represents fidelity and constancy. The custom began in ancient Israel where brides wore a blue ribbon in their hair to symbolise this fidelity.

A sixpence was placed in the bride's shoe to bring the couple wealth in their married life. some brides still place a penny in their shoe during the marriage ceremony.

kristin
12-08-2005, 04:45 PM
Why Do the Attendants Dress Alike?

Who hasn't noticed that the maids, ushers, and entire bridal party dress very much like the bride and groom? It was once common for the bride, her groom and all their friends to walk together to the church on the morning of the wedding. Afraid that someone, maybe a rejected suitor, would spot the happy couple and put a curse on them. The groom's friends wore clothes almost identical to his, and the women costumed themselves like the bride. These disguises tricked evil wishers into letting the real bride and groom live happily ever after. Of course, today we dress our attendants alike for the beauty and pageantry of the event.